Dude, you are actually really sick if you could read this and not think what he did was clearly horrible and clearly rape. She was protesting and fighting him the whole time and he didn’t stop. Someone sober enough to be to able to function and actually have sex is sober enough to hear “no” and to respond to someone fighting them off. Being super drunk might excuse him taking a while to respond to “no” or forgetting he’d agreed to “no” but it does not explain these events.