Honestly, this article was really nauseating for me to read. You need to throw away your cultural hang ups. That’s on you.
Consider how lucky you are that you can orgasm from oral at all. If I could orgasm from oral, I would sit on guys’ faces all damn day and not feel the least bit guilty about it. And I might not even reciprocate.
All you’re doing in this article is complaining about a problem that is 100% in your power to change. Change your attitude and stop this victim mindset about something you can 100% control.