OB/GYNs always say this. It is one of the things that upsets me the most. I really think sexual desire is just suppressed by social factors in many women, and if they’d get past their hang ups, they’d have desire. Also, are they not having orgasms? It just doesn’t make sense. I have checked with all my guy friends and they tell me the women they’ve been with all had high sex drives. I just don’t get who tf these women are.

Meanwhile, I have dealt with guys who had low sex drives. And I have dealt with guys who had difficulty getting it up and having an orgasm for psychological reasons. These are issues that people insist aren’t common in men and yet I’ve seen them several times in my personal sample. Quite a lot of research also indicates that psychological factors are important for men as well.