This is exactly what women should be demanding.

Given the supply and demand imbalance when it comes to how much men and women want sex (sorry, but this is undeniable despite protests to the contrary), this should be easy enough especially in casual encounters, where the supply and demand imbalance is even greater.

I make guys watch me use my vibrator on myself until I orgasm. This can take a while. And they have to like it. Those are the rules.

Though my needs are far weirder and more threatening to men’s egos than those of women who haven’t been mutilated, I have no trouble getting them met. I simply put my foot down and say, “This is what I need.” I can’t remember any guy ever refusing. If this plays into why I get rejected sometimes, I frankly wouldn’t know. But I think I mainly get rejected for being a pain in the ass. That’s another issue.