Ugh! As a feminist, I hate all these rules! I literally got ditched by my date at a bar last night so I stuck around all by myself for over an hour and no one talked to me.

If I do decide to approach a guy, which I hate admitting I rarely have courage to do, I definitely don’t look for cues. I just do it. There is nothing wrong with this. Interest or lack thereof is readily communicated within the first minute.