What might help is realizing that most men don’t operate with the same expectations of hypersensitivity that women do.

And it honestly seems like the feminists who speak out against this are the ones who enforce it most.

I’ve never had any trouble standing up to men or women. And that’s how I’ve gotten de-platformed from Quora and Twitter by feminists, kicked out of the Women of Sex Tech by feminists. The very people whose interests I most represent kick me out and get me banned because I simply do not care about their feelings as much as they think I should.

I get in all kinds of trouble for asking questions and expressing opinions that are “off limits.” But it’s never men who give me a hard time. Sure I’ve had a few cry to my face. But that’s not indication I did anything wrong to them. I didn’t.

You need to realize it’s not a crime to not care about other people’s feelings. And if you sleep with people who don’t care about you, that’s your choice.