Wtf? This is exactly what I want and I don’t think it makes a man any less manly. In fact, I think it’s quite the opposite. Coming to a woman’s rescue in a time of need actually fits with traditional gender roles and gendered notions of chivalry. Whining and complaining is not manly or even legit behavior for any human. Either do it without complaining or set a boundary and don’t. Whining is for weak people.